good people..

good day!..and yes i know it has been a while since the good people day! but hey, what you gonna do..the day passed and i have to..and i mean i have to talk about good people..and who else to mention than my family..i mean there are so many people i can say are good people..but who in this earth has shown me so much Love, than the people who were there since i was born..i mean, let's see i'll go through it really quickly and really not even showing or not "paying it full respect" to how much i (heart) this people..mind you before this i want to make a small point that i wish would be placed clear more often..the difference between family & friends..yeah friends are so awesome and so wow sometimes..if i had to write this about them, i would get too excited and i would make a heck of a long post..but hey friends choose to contact us, and get to know us better and listen and talk and so on, but family on the other hand is there wether, you or they, like it or not, and i know this sounds pretty harsh and pretty..hmmm like strict..but hey there is a good point of view of this tough Love kinda thing..and i do not like those two words paired up together, "tough" Love..i really rather say like..involuntary..involuntary Love because who can help to do other wise, Loving your mother, Loving your father..and something a little complicated..Loving your siblings..why complicated?..because of personalities not for anything else..because maybe you're really similar or maybe you are really different, but this is where "involuntary" Love, kicks in..because i know that nobody in this earth, know me better than my family, they have been with me through my ups and my lows and my super sky high ups and my down to the floor lows again..and they are always there and because they Love also they will tell me what's best for me and do what is best for me no matter how i will react, or what my response may be..and that Love is like so..so "i will not let you go..like ever" kind of Love..why?..cause we can kick, we can scream, we can have bad looks, we can say really bad things and we will always come through, Love will always come through, this is where i see Love is not a feeling, cause feelings come and go, but Love endures..now having read that..are friends the same way?..sometimes no, right?..you tell them something out of Love, and because you want the best for them..and they may never talk you back..not all of them..let me make this clear..not all of them will do that..maybe even they may never talk back but they will in the future realize that, "yeah he told me that because he wanted the best for me, because he Loved me.."..i myself try to stay in the perspective that if someone comes to me and tells me something i am doing wrong i will try to have a good reaction in that moment and afterwards as well..cause i imagine also that it is not easy to tell somebody something they don't like..i imagine, cause i have stressed over the issue a bit as well..trying not to as time goes by and i try to grow mind-wise..but i do..now, back to the family, this is where an aspect of Love is shown as well..you can inspire Love and create Love where there is maybe none..Love can be created..it is not only some out of nowhere kind of thing like in a romantic sense or even a silver screen type of style..some of us in this world had to adapt..to new complete families, or maybe new elements brought into a family..or to example this as well, : as a kid i disliked a sibling or two or even my parents because of what they told me, or because of plain old bad attitude of mine, but hey as i grew up and i started thinking and reasoning more..my Love for them grew somewhat involuntarily and some because i got to decide that hey, this is such a blessing to have a family that Loves you..these are such good people, i wish i could go to the world, wit ha megaphone and just life them up and say, "yeah they are awesome, the very best good people i will ever know."
and with this i cannot even get to the knees of what i am trying to say, but hey writing of Love will always be like that, but i will try to pay respect to that Love, by passing it to my wife and to my children, and i might not be able to tell this to the whole world, but i will gather my kids, grandkids, from time to time and tell them.."yeah, they were awesome..best good people i will ever know..i will Love them forever"..